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Junk Email of the Day: And if you want a unicorn, CLICK HERE


I like junk emails that follow proper grammar and spelling rules.

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Men equate a larger penis as being more attractive and impressive to the opposite sex. But they don’t always know if increasing their size will decrease or increase the pleasure they derive from sexual intercourse.

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Reasons Why I May Be Single: Early 20th Century Edition


I love vintage ads. They certainly didn’t beat around the bush back then. They told you, in very frank and explicit terms, why you needed to buy this product – you were too fat, you were too ugly, you were single!

In these times of subliminal messaging, where the misogyny behind an ad is hidden in subtext and “art”, it’s kind of refreshing to look at advertising from yesteryear. At least they told you what was wrong with you – to your face.

So when someone asks me, “Why are you single?”, I can choose from many possible reasons, thanks to vintage advertising.

1. I smell.

2. I`m constipated.

3. I`m smart.

4. I smell.

5. I sleep around.


If you can’t say any­thing nice…then just shut up


Earlier this week, my friend Catherine posted a Tweet about her mother’s new website. It was a gesture from a loving and proud daughter – this was her mother’s first foray into social networking and Catherine wanted to give the website a little exposure. The responses from Catherine’s followers on Twitter and Facebook were welcoming, kind and gracious.

I remember how nervous I was when I published by first blog post. Unlike posting a note on Facebook, it was out there for the whole world to read and comment on. I overcame my fears because: a) I had confidence in my writing skills; b) I have a thick skin that makes me impervious to trolls; and c) I had a great network of friends and colleagues that supported and guided me.

But if you’re a 60-year-old woman who lives in a small town and is unfamiliar with social networking, starting a website can be a daunting experience. It certainly doesn’t help when your first efforts get slammed by a stranger.

The following is an email sent to Catherine’s mom that same evening.

Subject: Hi Helen.
Date: Wed, 11 Nov 2009

First, I know am probably going to regret this. I just know I will. My apologies up front!

It generally happens when I poke my nose in where it does not belong.

Ok, that being over with – here is the scoop.

Your daughter whom I have never met, but see on that stupid thing called Twitter sometime, just announced that your NEW website was up and running.


Well, I went and had a peak.

Here is where I will start to regret all this …

First, my background is online. I have built well-over 1000 sites. They (who ever the heck they are) say I am an expert in this stuff and have been online from day one, in truth
well before the web was invented. I am also a writer and a photographer and a musician.

I am happy you have a site. We should all have sites.

However, and I am not sure how to put this, yours is horrible.

I am sorry, I am not trying to be rude.

And I am not talking about look and feel or design although it is not as good as you deserve – there are simply things that have been done incorrectly and will more than likely diminish your brand.

Here have a look …

I did this in 10 minutes. I used a simple template I had sitting around – there are a lot of templates just like this.

I am not suggesting you use what I have done. There are probably dozens you would like better.

This site is built properly. Meaning people can navigate through it and it will be found buy search engines and a bunch of other stuff I will not bore you with.

I tried to get hold of your daughter to see if I could get her to bridge this – but she did not get the message (the Twitter thing is useless at contacting people – probably a good thing)

Anyway – please accept this message in the spirit it is intended.

Your daughter seems like a great Gal and moreover you seem pretty amazing yourself. You need a better online presence.

I just hate seeing people do what I consider is the wrong thing.

And if you want this work I did – I will happily complete it of course – this was 10 minutes work so I would add your gallery and what is missing. It is no charge.



[Business contact information removed.]

I can’t even begin to list all the things that are so wrong with this email. I won’t go into the obvious, but here are a few that stand out:

1. The unsolicited sales pitch. Yes, this was a sales pitch, albeit a very poor one. I don’t care how carefully you choose your words or try to be friendly, when you list your CV and offer your help at “no charge”, you are selling something. If you are truly interested in helping someone, with no selfish motives, then start a conversation. Don’t be a spambot.

2. The casual tone of the email. Pete has never met Catherine or her mother, yet he thinks it is perfectly okay to speak to and about them as if they’re friends. And don’t get me started on the “great GAL” comment.

3. It’s never a good idea to insult the person you are trying to help/sell to. Hard to get buy-in from a person whose website you describe as “horrible”. Hint: look up “finesse” in the dictionary.

4. Was he that anxious to tell Helen how “horrible” her site was that he couldn’t wait one day to hear back from Catherine? Despite its limitations, Twitter IS a good way of contacting people you don’t know. Just don’t expect an instant response if they don’t know you personally. (And if you think it’s a “stupid thing”, then maybe you shouldn’t be on it.)

5. Just because you call yourself an expert, doesn’t mean you are one. “I just hate seeing people do what I consider is the wrong thing.” Pete should have taken the time to find out the purpose of the website before making this arbitrary call. The site is clean and easy to navigate; it’s a  forum to showcase her work to friends and colleagues. What is so “wrong” with that?

6. If you think you are being rude, and if you think you’ll regret what you say, then don’t say it. Stating it upfront in your email does not mitigate the damage that will follow.

To the unfamiliar and uninitiated, the Internet can be quite intimidating. Some of us put aside our fears and dive right in. Others prefer to dip their toes in to get a feel for the temperature – let’s invite them in, and not push them under the water.


Podcamp Toronto 2009



I had the pleasure of attending Podcamp Toronto this past weekend. Over 600 people converged at the Rogers Communications Centre at Ryerson to listen to their peers talk about new media, social networking sites, blogging and podcasting (natch). The two-day “unconference” was free, thanks to its many sponsors, and offered a venue to for social media pros and amateurs  alike to mingle, network and learn from each other.

It was a great way to meet new people who share my interest in social networking tools. I was also able to meet the real live people behind the small Twitter avatars I see every day. And I learned something new at every session I attended. 

I won’t bore you with minute details of what was discussed at Podcamp (affectionately known by its hashtag  #pcTO09); all sessions were recorded and will be posted on the Podcamp Toronto wiki  ( I urge you to listen to each session – every speaker is passionate about their topic and the fun is in listening to them reach out to their audiences and share their knowledge.

Thanks and congrats to the organizers of this event!


Ugh, I just got my [in­sert eu­phemism here].


Stumbled upon this little item on the Brand Week website:

Procter & Gamble’s Tampax brand announced the launch of MonthlyGiftClub on teen and tween Web community Stardoll to promote products for that time of the month. 

Taking its cues from a tradition in TV ads—in which women are shown wearing white clothing as a visual cue that a brand’s sanitary products are safe and absorbent—Stardoll club members will receive virtual versions of white swimsuits, dresses and other frocks when the club meets certain membership milestones, such as 10,000 or 50,000 members. The effort specifically promotes Tampax Pearl, which has a Leak Guard feature that purports to help women “outsmart Mother Nature” so they can feel confident wearing white.

Aside from the swag, Stardoll visitors can win prizes by creating virtual summer scenes, and they can receive free samples of Tampax products by clicking on an icon and entering their personal information.

As some of you know, I wrote a post in May about Always’ “Happy Period” branding. Well, it seems the folks at Proctor and Gamble continue to insist that the time of the month should be welcomed – nay, celebrated! “Monthly gift”? Does it come wrapped in a neat little bow, too?

This time, they’ve created a Second Life-type networking site where tween girls can create their own avatar and interact with each other in the virtual world (when they receive their monthly gift, I presume). And in white clothes! I don’t know what reality these marketing geniuses live in, but who wears white during a visit from their Aunt Flo? Every woman I know has experienced an “accident” involving the Curse and white pants/skirt/shorts. The embarrassment has been seared into our memories; I have a hard time even buying white pants, let alone wearing them.

Virtual summer scenes? How about one where your avatar ties a sweater around the waistband of her white shorts before running home because, oops, her period came earlier than expected? (True story.) Or, your avatar is laying on her virtual couch with a virtual heating pad on her belly, gulping down virtual Advil (hey Wyeth – found a product placement opportunity for you) while her friends are frolicking at the virtual pool?

While I applaud P&G’s foray into social networking, I not sure this was the way to do it. Is it really necessary? P&G enjoys a healthy market share due to its two oldest and largest brands in feminine hygiene, Always and Tampax. It also has a captive audience; like toilet paper, its products are a necessity. All we, the consumers, ask for are quality goods that do the job. Period. (Sorry, couldn’t resist.) We don’t need colourful packaging. We don’t want condescending campaigns. Is it any wonder I switched to o.b. (aside from reducing the amount of plastic applicators in our landfills)?

I could be sneaky, log in to Stardoll as pose as a 13-year-old girl to find out more (and create a little havoc). But I’m too honest for my own good, so I decided to just blog about it.

I imagine my avatar would look something like this:

Look - she's wearing white!

Look out! She's wearing white!


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