When You Were Young: The Kids Are Alright

Baby now the party’s over
For us, so I’ll be on my way
Now that the things which moved me
Are stand­ing still

- I Don’t Wanna Dance, Eddy Grant

In December of 1982, I was foiled by love once again, and de­cided to skip a school field trip to watch The Who’s Farewell Tour (the first of many, it later turned out.)

Dec. 1/82

Hi! Oh, it’s such a bor­ing day to­day and I’m so hun­gry (ain’t I al­ways?) Anyway, I got a Mr. Big choco­late bar in my purse wait­ing for me to eat him! Me and Boogie were ar­gu­ing about Vince this morn­ing. I said he was stuck up, and she said that he wasn’t and that he was cute. I agreed that he was cute, be­cause he’s stuck-up, he doesn’t say hi to me. Hmph! Anyway (no­tice how I al­ways say that word) I have to go. Bye!

Dec. 9/82

YAHOO! Just to get into the Christmas spirit! Tomorrow’s the big Christmas dance. Sure, I bought some­thing, but it looks aw­ful on me and my mother con­vinced me not to take it. I can ex­change it, but I can’t re­turn it. What a fool I was. Oh, I’m sorry I didn’t write in you last day, but I wasn’t feel­ing good and I had to go to the doctor’s. Anyway, I have a skirt, but I need a top. I’m go­ing to the Sheridan [Mall] af­ter school with my mom. Oh, bye!

Dec. 13/82

What about the party, you ask me, well in three words, it sucked the bag! Daniela had fun with Lino, but I didn’t. Why? Well, there was this cute guy and he had these big eyes that glare right at you, but any­ways, he was a hunk. So any­ways, I danced with him be­fore and he dances good from what I saw. So I went to ask him, but then this girl, I think she went to this school, asked him. Well he was do­ing these things to her that I wanted him to do to me, and then they had a spot dance. While he was there with his arm her and she was play­ing with his hair. And then I went to get a drink, so I could ask him. The he goes and asks that girl again. I was so mad, be­cause it was the last dance. Well, I don’t want to talk about it any­more. It’s too painful. Bye!

Dec. 17/82

Yipee! I’m not go­ing to Boyd af­ter all! I’m not go­ing to have a good time, and plus, the Basil’s party is go­ing to…Oh! We got a spe­cial sched­ule to­day, and we get off early, and then we’re go­ing to our old school, maybe even to the mall. The Who simul­cast is gonna be on tv. tonight and I’m gonna turn up the stereo loud! I just found out, (I don’t know if it’s true or not) that Slutty, Daniela and I were the most pop­u­lar girls last year, or this year, I think, I dunno. We have half an hour left and I’m happy to­day, cause we’re havin’ a bake sale. Bye!

When You Were Young: Living on a Prayer

A smile re­lieves a heart that grieves
Remember what I said
I’m not wait­ing on a lady
I’m just wait­ing on a friend

- Waiting on a Friend, The Rolling Stones

My lat­est in­stall­ment of my grade nine jour­nals cen­tres on a class­mate who nearly died and a much-anticipated school ex­cur­sion. Also, the “sex mat­tress” is just a mis­nomer. Trust me.

Nov. 15/82

Hi! I just cam back from a glo­rius week­end af­ter exam week. I know I failed English! Oh, wll, Boogie’s sit­ting next to me and I keep look­ing at her jour­nal every now and then. I know I’m writ­ing messy, and I have to do it over. We’re hav­ing English in the lunch room and I should’ve brought my lunch, ’cause I’m hun­gry. (I thought you were from Canada.) Ha! Sad. Bye!

Nov. 17/82

Hi! It’s me, re­mem­ber? I’m sorry that I’m al­ways chang­ing pens, but they’re al­ways run­ning out on me. I don’t know why I’m so happy to­day. I guess it’s just that I got no home­work tonight. Isn’t that amaz­ing? Well we got our mug shots back to­day, and do I ever look so gross! Yesterday, Nikki was show­ing me her grad­u­a­tion pric­tures. She looks so good! But Vince looks like a freak, be­cause he had a perm. And Peter, from Basil’s, looked so good, I was freak­ing out! Anyway, we have to do an act­ing English Project, and we’re go­ing on a trip next moth to Boyd. Oh, I have to split. Bye!

Nov. 19/82

I’m so de­pressed to­day! Cynthia is in the hos­pi­tal to­day be­caue her fa­ther left the car run­ning and the gas fumes went into the house and he found them on the floor. I started cry­ing, be­cause she’s a good friend, and she was al­ways nice to me. I hope she’ll make it. Well, I got to go, and wish and pray for her.

Nov. 23/82

Hi! Have you heard? Cynthia’s much bet­ter, and she’s com­ing out of the hos­pi­tal soon. I think all our pray­ing paid off. Anyways, we got back grom the philo­soph­i­cal typ­ing class where we’re learn­ing ver­ti­cal typ­ing and cen­ter­ing, which is such a bore, be­cause we learn things that prob­a­bly won’t be do­ing in our fu­ture years. I re­mem­ber when Daniela and Lino were get­ting it on the sex mat­tress, and the lady worker there told them to get off. Oh! It was such a laugh! Ah well, we got an English sup­ply teacher, and she looks nice. Well, bye!

Nov. 25/82

Hi! Sorry I’m late. I had to pick up some pa­pers for O’Toole. Hey, guess what! I’m go­ing to Boyd! Aong with Ana, Elena, Ciara, Lina, Nicki and Elena C.! We’re gonna have fun! I think Rocky and Frank are com­ing, I don’t know. Dig this ra­tio: 24 girls to 16 guys! We are go­ing to par-ty, man! Gabe wants to read Daniela’s jour­nal, which I read, and I think it’s too per­sonal, and the stu­pid girl rewrote al­most all the pages over. What a dumb­ell! I think that Gabe should stick his nose in his own busi­ness. I al­ways have to stick up for that girl. She doesn’t know how to take care of her­self! Well, bye!

Nov. 29/82

Well, here I am to­day, again. It’s gonna be a pretty good day to­day. Why? How do I know? Because once I get through typ­ing feel­ing happy, I know it’s gong to be a good day. And plus, the boy’s bas­ket­ball team is play­ing Queen of Piss to­day at Frances De Salles, and Eli and Steve might be there, along with some other peo­ple from Queen of Piss. Anyway, I came in late to­day, be­cause I was wait­ing for Boogie, the lazy chick. That’s the last time I wait for her. I was so tired this morn­ing. Hey, did you hear? The Argos lost 32 to 15, I think. I guess all that screamin, “Arg-gos, Arg-os” went to waste. Oh, Daniela’s let­ting me read her jour­nal to­day. Oh, have to split! Bye!


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When You Were Young: Let’s Dance

Oh Mickey
what a pity you don’t un­der­stand.
You take me by the heart when you take me by the hand.

- Hey Mickey, Toni Basil 

In late October/early November of 1982, I set­tled nicely into high-school life. I tried out for the cheer­lead­ing squad (spoiler: I don’t make it), had my first dance (and heart­break) and be­came quite ad­dicted to Ms. Pacman. God, I was a such an eight­ies cliché.

Oct. 25/82

Well, today’s the day of the big test! Yes, I stud­ied. I watched the New Music last night. Anna Curci’s brother was on it be­cause he’s the lead singer of the group Sherriff. Oh, he’s such a babe! He has blond, curly hair, and he looks like Anna a lit­tle. Well, I gotta study, bye!

Oct. 27/82

Hi! We just took our pic­tures for the year­book. Oh! Today’s the big, and I mean big, sci­ence test, and am I scared! After school to­day, the mu­sic teacher has to help me with play­ing my flute, and to­mor­row we get off at 2:00, and I’m go­ing swim­ming, no mat­ter what my par­ents say. Gosh, am I tired! I must have stayed up late last night. Oh, Ximena, Liz, Dora, Angie and Tiz’s brother, Domenic are com­ing af­ter school to­day. I can’t wait till this school day is over. Bye!

This re­ally is me in grade nine.

Oct. 29/82

YAHOO! Tonight’s the big dance and Dom is com­ing! So is Angie, and the stu­dent coun­cil is go­ing to be an­nounced. I hope Daniela wins! We’re hav­ing Funky Joe as the D.J. and it’s go­ing to be a smash! I got to wear R — – ‘s gold shoes, even if I have to stick tis­sues in them. Bye! I’ll tell you about it!

Nov. 2/82

Hello! Oh, I wish I stayed home to­day. We have a mu­sic test to­day, and I didn’t even study! I stayed up till 10:30 last night. Oh, I can’t go swim­ming, and I can’t par­tic­i­pate in cheer­lead­ing prac­tice. (semi-finals are on Thursday, I think) be­cause, well, oh you know why. I won­der what Daniela is scrib­bling in her di­ary. I am go­ing to ask her if I could read it. Oh, bye!

Nov. 4/82

Hi! We just got out of typ­ing, and I’m that glad! She was al­ways pick­ing on me! Well, it looks like the teacher is com­ing to in­spect you, like what kind of shape you’re in, and if I’m keep­ing you up to date. Oh, I for­got to tell you about the dance. It was out of sight! Domenic C — — — – came and he looked and danced just heav­enly! And speak­ing of heaven, you should’ve seen Daniela and Lino, man. It looked like they were hav­ing a good time. And as for me, hmph! I gave up on Vince, af­ter all, he has to keep up his stu­pid rep! Anyway, I lost my re­li­gion text­book, and I’m shit­ting bricks try­ing to find it. Notice how I make my t’s now — t. Freaks you right out, eh!

Oh well, I have the cheer­lead­ing semi-finals tonight, and af­ter I’m chang­ing into my jeans and split­ting to the mall. I’ll prob­a­bly be play­ing some more pac-gal, which I am be­com­ing ad­dicted to. Oh, ex­ams next week! I’m gonna be up to my ears in books, study­ing. And I got in­vited to a party! Jeff, who was in my grad­u­at­ing class, is, well, his sis­ter is hav­ing a sur­prise party for him.

[At this point, my teacher marked my journal — 10/10.]

Well, how did it feel, hav­ing his mark on you. Not that good, hey? Oh well, I gotta go now. Bye!

p.s. It stank! (the party)

When You Were Young: Bus Stop

Well I’ve missed my bus I know I’m late
I’ve gotta do some­thing I know I hate

- Double Dutch Bus, Frankie Smith

Judging by the next few en­tries in my jour­nal, was the TTC ever “The Better Way”? I also apol­o­gize for my mis­spelling of “ciao” and my ap­par­ent xenophobia.

Oct. 18/82

Hi! We just got our TTC stu­dent passes to­day, and I look bad. Why am I writ­ing in green? Because that’s the colour of the card. Yup! Oh, to­day we play Queen of Piss in soft­ball. I’m go­ing to have, oops, sorry, I’m gonna have goose­bumps! Not be­cause I’m scared, it’s be­cause it’s go­ing to be so damn cold! I stayed up till 11:00 last night to do my *!@?% sci­ence project. Hmmm, I guess we’re gonna (I got it right) see a movie now since the pro­jec­tor is out, so tootleloo (means chow)! (It means bye!)

p.s. We won! 12 – 10

Oct. 21/82

Hi! I just found out that we’re get­ting an­other text book! Wow man, like, I’m so thrilled! Anyway, Daniela, R — – and I were just late this morn, be­cause the stu­pid bus dri­ver dropped us of at Keele. I felt like swear­ing at him, but I promised my­self I would stop swear­ing. We were at the bus stop at 8:15, and we thought we would be there at 8:30, but when our bus came, it was like a can of sar­dines — crowded. 3 buses, count ‘em 3, passed us by. Then fi­nally that bus dri­ver, I think he’s from an­other coun­try, let us in. Oh yeah, we were crowded, but when he stopped at the Jeffrey’s stop, half of the bus went off. Then that’s when our predica­ment started. Thank God, we have a free morn­ing late! Oh, bye!

Dating in the 80s

They re­ally liked to have a lot of fun back then.

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